How long will it be before you can get through your daily routine without feeling the wave of pain sweep over you, without sensing that knot in the pit of your stomach, and without dwelling on what went wrong?
A broken heart (or heartbreak) is a common metaphor used to describe the intense emotional pain or suffering one feels after losing a loved one, through death, divorce, breakup, moving, being rejected, or other means.
Although "heartbreak" is usually a metaphor, there is a condition known as "broken heart syndrome", where a traumatizing incident triggers the brain to distribute chemicals that weaken heart tissue.
A broken heart can cause such an intense reaction that you may feel your life has been completely stripped of meaning. Jobs, hobbies, and friends may no longer hold any joy. In fact, some of us even experience physical pain with a tight chest, nervous stomach, or terrible insomnia.
Lots of things can cause heartbreak. Some people might have had a romantic relationship that ended before they were ready. Others might have strong feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or maybe a person feels sad or angry when a close friend ends or abandons the friendship.
Although the causes may be different, the feeling of loss is the same — whether it's the loss of something real or the loss of something you only hoped for.
so my girlfriend of 2 years! broke up with me! that shit was painful, shit! but i really love her! i had mapped out my future with her in it! we even had dog names picked out :( i cried - African men don't cry!
Am really trying to deal with it, and its really painful, i have told a dear friend, he is really helping me cope with it. you see the thing is, i still have hope, and i am trying to win her back, but she is pushing me away.
we were soul mates, i guess. anyway I've sobbed enough! no i haven't, ill do it till i say it is! after all this is my blog. hahaha
anyway im looking for help (am self medicating)- id go to her for help! - This too shall pass!
some random website says, detach yourself first - i don't wanna i want her! oh well! wish me luck!
bottom line! what i have learn't from life is, happiness comes from within!
ill find hope - hope that the sadness wont last, and that i will love again! (so the site says - sigh)
wish me luck! - hope no one reads my blog (to much mafeelings)
